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Does My Crush Like Me Back?

18 questions, about 3 min. Free, no sign-up.

This quiz asks how your crush actually behaves around you: who messages first, what they remember, how they act in a group, and how they react when you mention someone else.

Your answers are scored on two scales. Signals is whether their behaviour looks more friendly or more flirty. Effort is whether you're doing most of the work or they meet you halfway. Together they give one of four results: Signs Point to Yes, Mixed Signals, Friendly, Not Flirty, or Too Early to Tell.

Each result explains what the signs mean, what to keep in mind and a sensible next step. There are 18 questions. No quiz can read someone's mind, so treat it as a way to think things through, not a verdict.

Possible results

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  1. You send your crush a funny video at 10 p.m. What usually happens?
    • They reply within minutes and the chat runs past midnight
    • A string of heart-eyes, then nothing for two days
    • A "haha" and a video back, same as they'd send anyone
    • Seen, then a thumbs-up the next afternoon
  2. You're telling a story to a group of friends. Where are your crush's eyes?
    • On me the whole time, catching my eye when everyone laughs
    • On me while I talk, then on their phone the rest of the night
    • Laughing along like everyone else, no more and no less
    • Honestly, I didn't notice them looking at all
  3. They find small reasons to touch my arm, shoulder or hand. (agree / disagree)
  4. When did your crush last start a conversation with you, without you messaging first?
    • Today or yesterday. They message first all the time
    • They used to, a lot. Lately it's been patchy
    • Often, usually to share a meme or ask about class or work
    • I can't remember. I'm almost always the one who starts
  5. You mention you're stressed about something happening next week. What does your crush do?
    • Message the morning of it to wish me luck
    • Say something really sweet, then never bring it up again
    • Offer practical help, the way they would for any friend
    • Say "oh no" and change the subject
  6. I'm usually the one who keeps our conversations going. (agree / disagree)
  7. How does your crush talk to you compared with how they talk to everyone else?
    • Softer and more teasing, with a nickname nobody else uses
    • Flirty when we're alone, oddly distant when others are around
    • About the same. They're just a warm person with everyone
    • We don't talk enough for me to tell
  8. You mention a film you want to see. What happens next?
    • They say "we should go" and actually suggest a day
    • They say "we should go!" and it never comes up again
    • They suggest getting a group together to see it
    • They say they've heard it's good, and that's it
  9. They talk openly to me about people they fancy. (agree / disagree)
  10. Your crush finds out you went on a date with someone else. How do they react?
    • They go a bit quiet, then ask a lot of questions about it
    • They're cold for a few days, then act like nothing happened
    • They want all the details and say I deserve someone great
    • No visible reaction at all
  11. When the two of you end up sitting near each other, what's normal?
    • They sit right next to me, and our arms or knees end up touching
    • Sometimes really close, sometimes they keep a careful distance
    • Easy hugs hello and goodbye, like with everyone else
    • We don't really end up near each other
  12. When we make plans, they actually follow through. (agree / disagree)
  13. How much does your crush remember about the things you've told them?
    • Tiny details, like my sister's name and a song I mentioned once
    • Some things perfectly, others not at all, depending on the week
    • The big things, the way a good friend would
    • Not much. I often have to remind them
  14. They get a bit nervous or awkward around me in a way they don't with others. (agree / disagree)
  15. Your crush mentions their weekend plans. Where do you fit in?
    • They ask if I want to come, or find another time to see me
    • They hint that I should come but never actually invite me
    • I'm invited along with the usual group
    • I don't, really. I just hear about it afterwards
  16. If I stopped messaging, I'm not sure we'd talk at all. (agree / disagree)
  17. Their friends see the two of you together. What do they do?
    • Swap looks, tease them, or leave us alone on purpose
    • Act like they've heard about me, while my crush plays it cool
    • Treat me as part of the group, nothing special
    • They don't seem to know who I am
  18. They treat me pretty much the same way they treat their other friends. (agree / disagree)