Too Early to Tell
Not enough to go on
There isn't much to read yet, either way. You need more time with them.
Take the quiz to get your own result.
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Where this result sits on each scale.
Signals
Effort
Overview
Based on your answers, there aren't many signals in either direction. You start most of the conversations, they don't seem to seek you out yet, and there's no clear sign of extra attention. That doesn't mean no. Mostly it means you haven't spent enough time together to tell.
It's also worth being honest with yourself. When someone is interested, they usually make some effort to talk to you or spend time with you. If that's been missing for a while, they may not feel the same, or they may not know you well enough yet.
The good news is that this is the easiest result to change. More time, more conversation and a few chances to talk properly will give both of you much more to go on.
- Uncertain
- Early days
- Low contact
- Open
The good signs
Nothing's been ruled out
You haven't had a rejection or a clear "just friends" signal. The door is still open.
A clean slate
With no history to untangle, you can make a good impression and build from there.
You know what you want
You've noticed this person and want to know them better. That's a perfectly good place to start.
Low stakes
Since you're not close yet, a friendly chat or a casual invitation carries very little risk.
Things to keep in mind
Building a story on very little
It's easy to fill the gaps with hope, especially when you don't know them well.
Try this: Base your feelings on real conversations, not imagined ones.
Doing all the work
If you're always reaching out and getting little back, notice that, and protect your energy.
Try this: Reach out a couple of times, then leave room for them to meet you halfway.
Waiting for a sign
If you wait for them to notice you, you could be waiting a long time.
Try this: Start small: a real question, a compliment, a shared joke.
What to do next
Your next move
Get to know them as a person first. Talk about something you have in common, ask a real question, and see whether the conversation flows. Join the group plans they're part of.
After a few weeks of that, take the quiz again. If they've started messaging first and seeking you out, your result will change. If they haven't, that's useful to know too.
If it doesn't go your way
If they don't seem interested after you've given it a fair try, it's okay to let it go. A crush on someone you barely know is often about who you hope they are. Someone who's excited to talk to you is worth more than someone you have to convince.
Do and don't
Do
- Do have real conversations and get to know them.
- Do make it easy for them to talk to you.
- Do keep your life and your options open.
Don't
- Don't confess big feelings to someone you barely know.
- Don't keep messaging if you're getting nothing back.
- Don't read meaning into every glance.
Other results in this quiz
- Signs Point to YesThe attention, the effort and the little details all point the same way.
- Mixed SignalsThere's real interest here, but it comes and goes, and you're doing most of the chasing.
- Friendly, Not FlirtyThey clearly like you as a person. Romantic interest just isn't showing up yet.